Destruction Mode

Man, it is good this boy is cute.  He is in constant demolition mode wherever he goes.  His little hands are into EVERYTHING.  I'm excited that he is exploring and testing boundaries; there are worse things than messes.  But...I'm tired!  The newest fun thing is walking to the kitchen island (which he is now as tall as!!!!) and swiping off anything within reach.  This was first tried with a full (luckily cold) coffee cup -and, being the queen of clutter, I struggle to stop repeating my mistakes.

We are working HARD on redirection and following commands.  We are also working on not raising our voices when we are frustrated.  While Parker is understanding more and more, it is difficult to tell when he understands you and is ignoring you, or if he really isn't processing what you are saying.  We are also struggling with discipline when we know he is ignoring.  Developmentally, time-outs are our best option, but he doesn't understand them well.  He is so easy-going that he often doesn't mind time-outs.  So, most of the time, we re-direct.

Luckily, he is a repetitive kid and sticks with the same few naughty behaviors...currently, pressing buttons on the entertainment system gadgets, throwing insert-object-here (phone, remote, food, etc.), and some others.  He is manipulative at times, for sure.  I see our future filled with 1) Cute smiles, giggles, and hugs to get out of trouble and 2) Mock innocence/fake misunderstanding.  We are just stepping into the smiles now!  Admittedly, there are times when it is hard not to laugh...like when he figured out how to make the ice-maker on the refrigerator work and stood in euphoric shock when they first came tumbling.  It is a work in progress!